Marriage is a beautiful thing and as a wife it's your role to keep your husband happy and satisfied sexually. While it takes the effort of both partners to make sex exciting it's much easier to bring out your husband's sexual drive much faster if you took the first initiative as a wife. If you know how to please your man not only do you have a more fulfilling and exciting sex life, but you have a happy marriage as well since sex is an integral part of any marriage.
To get you started, here are six tips for pleasing your husband in bed;
1. Know what you want in bed... Generally, men are pleased by women who know what they want in bed. Get excited and don't be afraid to show him that you're really enthusiastic about having sex. Explore your sexual fantasies and desires while you're having sex. This makes your husband feel that you not only find him sexy, but he turns you on as well.
Being enthusiastic about having sex with your husband means that he will not only look forward to having sex with you, but rises to your level of expectation too. In a nutshell, move away from the usual receiving end when making love by being more responsive.
2. Take control once in a while... In line with shifting away from the receiving end when having sex with your man, you need to dominate him in bed once in a while. Your husband doesn't have to take the lead all the time. When you let him do so, sex becomes boring and his interest in you dwindles gradually. Men love variety. Therefore, change sex positions once in a while. Do some research if you have to in the name of making sexual encounters with your man fresh and exciting. The more the variety the easier it will be to dominate your husband in bed.
3. Know what your man wants in bed... It's almost impossible to please your husband in bed if you don't know what he wants. The good thing is it's not that difficult to know what he wants in bed. Sometimes it's as easy as touching him in different places and watching how he reacts.
Know where he likes to be licked or touched and the rest of the pieces will fall into place. Note how he behaves every time you introduce something new in between sex sessions that way you will be in a position to fulfill his sexual desires. When you're not sure what he really wants in bed, simply ask him.
4. Be rough... Sometimes you need to move outside your comfort zone and be a little rough. Sex doesn't have to be gentle all the time. In fact, tell him you want it harder and faster and you will be surprised how willing he will be to do it. Ultimately when you're rough with your husband during sex, attaining orgasm becomes much easier for both of you.
5. Give him oral stimulation... Perhaps one of the easiest ways to please your husband is giving him a good blowjob. Men love blowjob's, so master your skill at giving them. Know that there's more to sex than intercourse. Have some foreplay before the actual penetration. Foreplay increases the pleasure and creates anticipation too. If you want to spice up the blowjob a little bit, you can use some dirty talk while you're at it.
6. Be confident... As a matter of fact, you cannot use the above-mentioned tips if you're not confident enough to do it. Start slow and as you do it more often your confidence levels grow as well. It's needless to say that your confidence is what determines how well you satisfy your husband; work on it.
Your journey to pleasing your husband starts by getting acquainted with these easy to apply tips. Don't forget that men are sexual creatures, so whatever you do make sure you have something for his eyes as well, so getting some sexy lingerie could turn out to be priceless.
You don't have to have intercourse to derive pleasure from sexual acts. All you need to do is put some effort in discovering how to pleasure a man by knowing the places to touch to bring him pleasure. While knowing which places to touch is paramount, you must know how to stroke them as well.
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