The widow, Joy Ifije,
was invited to the Edo Government House by the Governor who personally
apologised to her over his uncomplimentary remark. She was accompanied
to Government House by her sister Patience Ajayi and the landlord, Mr
Omobude Osakpanwa.
"I am doing
my best to see that we make Benin City a beautiful city that it was
before. You see, when you send a lot of money, government money to try
and beautify the city, to build roads and all that, you find the roads
are not working, I get very angry. The second issue is that when you put
your goods on the roads, the buses can run into you or like those that
sales tomatoes or pepper, those things can be contaminated because of
the exposure which is not good.
"That was
why I said to you if you are a widow, do you want more people to be
widows? But when I said go and die, I was really touched that I said
that to you because I understand that looking at you, you are struggling
but I was really angry, but I realized that even at anger I can achieve
the same result without talking to you the way that I did.
"Let me
apologise to you for the way I spoke to you, I am very sorry about the
statement. I have also realised that even in anger, one could still
achieve the same result that he set out to without provocative
outburst. I apologise from the bottom of my heart, but sometimes you get
angry when people compromise your efforts."
He noted
that trading on the road and walk ways could hinder free flow of traffic
as well as cause accidents. Also, exposing consumables to unhygienic
sanitary conditions can cause "disease and pose dangerous health hazards
to humans." Governor Oshiomhole asked Joy Ifije to join in the campaign
against road- and walkways trading.
By
announcing automatic employment to the widow, the Governor explained
that the employment would help her ease the burden of widowhood and give
her children good and proper education.
"For your
child, who is preparing to enter into the university, my daughters and
myself have agreed to support him. If he does well as we pray he does,
he would assist the family. Maybe this is the way God wants it. That is
why I asked them to look for you so that I can personally offer my
apology, but also to support you, so that God helping you, you can
overcome the pain of widowhood," the Governor said.
"As a single
mother, I want to see how I can help you to train your children and God
can use any of them to become a leader of our country. Please, resist
the temptation to do anything that would break the law. The law is the
law; it is no respecter of persons. If Government does not enforce the
law, there would be confusion," he pleaded.
Mrs. Ifije,
for her part, apologized to the Governor as well, saying, "I know I was
wrong, that was why I quickly knelt down to beg when I realised I was
face to face with the Governor."
According to
her, she had been a victim of theft by a truck pusher who went away
with her goods, a week before her encounter with the Governor. That was
why she was on the road with her goods that day as she no longer trusted
truck pushers not to do away with her goods.
She promised
to work with the state government in its campaign against street
trading and obstruction. She also promised to make judicious use of the
money donated to her by the governor.